True Friend - well, i have always thought about these two words... the meaning behind these two words are indescribable.. it has depth of an ocean, width of the world, height to reach the high sky, volume equal to the water in the universe, sensation between two hearts..oh.. yeah unassuming, unconditional, trustworthy, caring, sharing, daring, lovable, etc etc and zillion adjectives personify a true friend..
When we are in the trying times, they become our motivators, life savers... We get so comfortable with each other that we dont need to explain each and every act of ours.. :)
He/She understands and accepts you as you are.. enjoys and giggles and smiles with you.. helps you when you are in need..
They are there for you always.. They respect you the MOST... and makes you realize that you are important.. and advises you not to underestimate thyself..
Forgives us for our mistakes and then resolves the fights :) and get to the groove again..
Such a great feeling it is to have a true friend..
Beware, there are lots of back stabbers, traitors around us too who tries to let us down and hurt us and also finally claim that they are our world's best friends and that you are so special to them.. if you notice, they would be saying this to everyone they meet..
In this unfair world, you get to meet these kinda demons.. banes in disguise.. so just be cautious and avoid from getting hurt..
Now, this does not mean that you keep suspecting people around you for their acts.. It just means that you got to be extra alert and pull up your socks to identify who is true and who is not and be alarmed of the situations that you are in..
Love your true best friends cos if they are true, no matter what, they will come with you till the very end..
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Well it remind me of ist class when we were told to write a essay on My friend..But the essence of a friend remains the same always..It been really told in a very straightforward and simple manner but coming straight from heart.It reflected the purity,honesty,simplicity and depth of ur thoughts and persona ..I hope u only find good friends always which u can cherish for life.Bye
Thanks a whole bunch Panks... :)
hmmm nice read..!! and u r rite abt true friends!!! :)
Lakshmi,
We were once supposedly the best of friends... I don’t want to drive a stake in to your brimming excitement... but sometimes life is just so strange and we do things on an impulse and this is one such moment when i am writing this note to you on an impulse... i invited you to orkut that is the irony of life... not saying that you would have never got an invite from anyone else for that matter... just that its an irony...
i am glad you have a great amazing life coz i am a person who would never wish to see anyone unhappy... i read your blog on friendship and i felt that it sounded phenomenally hypocritical...
What did i do to you for you to stab me in my back and in the manner in which you did Lakshmi? I just want an answer to this... a true answer from the bottom of your heart. I have never even harmed you... always been there for you through your mood swings... listened to what you had to say... just tell me the reason why you stabbed me in my back... I only want to know that...
There were many times I wanted to ask you this but I always thought that you would come some day and confess the reason for why you screwed my relationship with you and with Sam.
i still wish you the very best and i am glad you have the life that you have always wanted.
Regards
Poornima
Poornima,
I am not sure when you posted this message. I just read it now. I believe that my happiness is purely in my hands and I dont give control to others to determine my happiness. So you need not worry about it.
I dont understand why you are talking about orkut here. I clearly dont get your point.
Infact, the irony of life is that you have not even realized what kinds of things you have done to me so far. Without realizing it till date, you are able to happily post a ruthless comment like this.
This post itself proves your reaction on my blog. This is more than enough to prove that my blog on friendship is so genuine and not hypocritical. Just by using magic words truth can never be hidden Poornima.
Oh when did I stab you in your back. It sounds so funny and shocking to know that you have not realized how you have stabbed me badly on my back. I have always helped you in need and not in need situations. From the bottom of your heart if you think, you will find an answer.
The way you talk is as though you are the only great soul that wants to see me happy??? If that was the case, you would not have done all these to me and for being a guillible person I would not have been cheated all the way through. You were the one keep telling me around that am your special friend always.. Well, a special friend deserves this??? You did not even treat me like an acquaintance. Thanks to you for making me a much matured and cautious person today as I will never hereafter have to go through situations like that.
And mood swings???? I dont think you deserve talking about mood swings. So let me not continue on this one.
Confess for what? for having done nothing how can you expect me to confess to you. Its really unpleasant to even point finger at me when your backyard is horribly dirty.
How can you say I screwed your relationship with Sam? Its your behaviour that has brought you to this level. You go talk to him and find out from him and you will know the truth. I dare to confront anyone on their face and I dont have any need to talk behind one's back and I am truly not that kind of a person. May be you should think twice before pointing your fingers at me.
Last but not the least, All the very best and have a happy life ahead. Have a good one.
Take care,
Lakshmi
P.S. Instead of posting your message here, you should have confronted me on May 31st 2005. Don't you think that way? All of a sudden by posting this message, nobody proves a point cos people around us know the truth anyway.
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